Did you have a baby when you didn't want to?

mrscupcake · August 3, 2009, 2:39pm

hey Ira, Congratulationz... jus got to know, MashAllah great news.. what did u name ur lil girl...?

May Allah Tallah shower his blessings upon all.. Ameen.

aramis · August 3, 2009, 4:01pm

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yes yes yes it happened to me ....4 times.....:D.

i lOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE my babaies so much. they are the best gifts of Allah. i do not know what i did to deserve them.

Arleitter · August 3, 2009, 4:02pm

Congratz :)

somegroovychick · August 3, 2009, 4:50pm

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aramis, 4 times! mashAllah! :)

aramis · August 3, 2009, 6:42pm

it seemed hard...but rewards are beyond your imagination.

mrscupcake · August 3, 2009, 7:50pm

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MashALLAH... aramis. May Allah bless them!

Such lovely stories here... Sounds cute!

mehrunisa · August 3, 2009, 10:46pm

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i think don't gv long gap for first baby
u cn do it for 2nd one!!!!
i hv heard so many girlz who go for birth control after wedding and are hopeless after 2 or 3 years
complications develope in female body as it requires to gv birth when u 2 r living together...its natural

somegroovychick · August 4, 2009, 1:07am

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^ birth control doesn't have much to do with fertility issues. thats a common misconception.

to stay on topic, after witnessing what my bff has had to go through in terms of ivf to have a baby, honestly, sumo, i'd be happy to just get preggo any time! we might not be as prepared mentally or financially as we like, but i do think having a baby is bigger than anything else you might do in life, so bring on the blessings! :)

ain · November 27, 2009, 9:41pm

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Yes.

Why? because I was too young at that time. I was only 18 yrs old. I'm so healthy so on the first try ...blingggggg!! got pregnant. It's too late for BCP.

Five years after that --- when I was preg with 2nd child also not ready because my husband had some prob and our marriage is in trouble.

Now they are in their teenage age. When I have back pain they do rub my back .. they help me in so many things. Glad I dont do stupid things back then.

*stupid things like ..give them to other people.

Sara516 · November 30, 2009, 12:48am

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:(