So I was wondering, have any of you gotten pregnant when you didn't want to? I've been married almost a year and I can't imagine being a mom yet, I still feel like a kid most of the time. (Don't give me a lecture on birth control). I'm just wondering if you got pregnant and had a baby and not only were you not planning on it but didn't really want it at that time? If you did, how did you learn to live with it? Or did it not seem to matter once u saw the bundle of joy?
So you are not sure if you are ready to be pregnant yet do not want to hear about the birth control. Your tone tells me that you are not ready to be a mother. I will advise to stay away from your husband if you cannot fathom using birth control pills or other methods.