Re: did you girls take any pills/etc before your wedding days???
^ Aliyish… are you a red headed leprechaun by any chance? 
Nadz, If you are thinking of using birth control pills, then (apart from the emergency pill) these must be used well in advance to the ‘day of the deed’… however i echo the advice given above that you should consult with your doctor for the best course of action for you… some of the medication may not be suitable for you, and it’s really trial and error to find the one that is best for you, so really you need to go to the doc, rather than just taking the same thing as someone else.
Also, speak to your hubby to be. Do not say regurgitate stuff like “i can’t speak to him about stuff like this” etc etc… If so then why are you marrying him? Are you going to spend the rest of your life with him living in silence? You are both mature adults, and you need to discuss this with him… 