Did you or didn’t you? I have started hearing a lot of girls saying that they are
looking for that vibe from the other person…the “this is it” one. I thought in
Desi Arranged Marriage scene there isn’t anything of that sort and t is one of
those filmy things. What about you all? Did you or did you not get the vibe?
Re: =Did you all get a feeling/vibe when you chose your Spouse to be?
Oh that's an interesting question. I'd love to hear what all the engaged/married ones have to say.
Re: =Did you all get a feeling/vibe when you chose your Spouse to be?
actually i used to hav a vibe everytime i got a proposal so i kept rejecting but even b4 my hubby's proposal came i had this dream two weeks ago n when my hubby's came even though he was not exactly wat would hav interested me i knew that was it.And when i thought i'll ponder more on this rishta i ended up getting engaged within 5 days of proposal.
but i used to get that vibe for my sisters too like when she picked one guy n i met him i clearly told her doesn't look like ur type n when she got proposal from her husband n she didn't like it in the beginning i was miles away then but just looking at his pic i said"i think hes the guy for u" n now they r happily married.
Re: =Did you all get a feeling/vibe when you chose your Spouse to be?
n it happened with one of my friends too that she was dying for this boy n wanted to marry him.So she secretly took me to meet him n meeting him i said no straight away n she was how could u tell hes well liked in school.Anyways she still married him anyways n ended up in misery.they had so much probs n later on her dad said about me Keh us ne tu pehlay he mana kia tha.us larki ka guess hum sub se achcha nikla.
This sounds like you are pretty intuned with the intuitive side ..I have this intuition about the things I would want to buy though…like this is the one I want to get:smack:
But seriously I have talked to some of my friends…Most of them didn;t have any…I further segmented it to the ones that are happily married to not so…only two said that they felt it…one said that after the guy was taking care of her mother..(guys tip tip;) ) and the other said that she felt it after they decided to meet up alone )
Re: =Did you all get a feeling/vibe when you chose your Spouse to be?
I didnt get the "he's the one" vibe from hubs but iw as also influenced by my previous experience (who i DID get a positive vibe from) and i thought he would be like that too. I kept doubting myself even after i said yes. But Alhamdulillah he is the nicest and most caring guy ever.
I didnt get the "he's the one" vibe from hubs but iw as also influenced by my previous experience (who i DID get a positive vibe from) and i thought he would be like that too. I kept doubting myself even after i said yes. But Alhamdulillah he is the nicest and most caring guy ever.
Thats really interesting ..thanks for sharing
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This sounds like you are pretty intuned with the intuitive side ..I have this intuition about the things I would want to buy though…like this is the one I want to get:smack:]
yeah i used to think like that k since my couple matching guesses r so good i should open up a matrimonial service.
Re: =Did you all get a feeling/vibe when you chose your Spouse to be?
Ever since I met my future hubby in college, I always had this strange "intuition" or "vibe" that he was the one. NO guy had ever made me feel like that and it was the strangest thing ever. I would ignore it as much as possible since I didn't really talk too too many guys but if say I were in class and he just happened to walk by or something I would feel it and that "vibe" would come back all over again. Strange huh, but so true!