Lil human share it with me mak. Coz I wanna know what position ur in right now. I want 2 know from personal Xperience.
If u've accepted it & ur happy with it - Good. But I aint happy.
Guppies & friends - This thread is about me :(. I’m da same dude who was 12 yrz old & got these comments from my dad. What was my fault when I was 12 yrz old? 
I guess life has come 2 a full stop, and da journey left is da heavenly abode. My cuzns incident is true, it has nothing 2 do with me, I was just relating an incident I came across.
awww thats so sad
^^ The way u know me online now has taken a different retrospect hasn't it sadzzz!
no not really.... the past makes u what u r today... and well my view about u hasnt changed
I hope it doesn’t 4 every1
its silly if people would…
Wanted to reply to you earlier but didn’t know where to start and what to say
I want to know bhai when your dad said that to you was he in a bad or troubled mood…did he kept on saying that like occasionally.
Bhai i also want to know if you are the eldest middle or youngest or if you are the only son…
Sometimes i think when we are young we don’t really really get what’s going on with our parents life…what had been their previous life before our coming…I don’t know…
I was fully aware of my parents financial situation. Dad earned a handsome 5 digit salary, & had all da perks of an Xecutive.
I was taunted with these comments occasionally when I used 2 fight with my youngest sisters. I'm da eldest & da only son. Dont tell me I'm a laadla, I'll slap U(virtually of course, dont take it personally), & my parents have alwayz kept my friends away from me. Even in Xtreme cases they used foul language with my friends on da phone. When my friends used 2 call, I was never given a message. In da end, when I approached my final year of school, no1 used 2 call me, coz they never Xpected a reply. Only 1 friend stood along, & hez a guppy too.
Sometimes life has been so cruel with me, that I've alwayz thought of.......I don't want 2 mention.
Its a damn depressing thread, I would say. I wish I could just fly away in2 da clouds on2 a heavenly abode on my unicorn.
whether we have these problems or dont its not up to us to decide,
but what we can decide is how to solve them, patience and perseverance though not the most common birtues they help in each and almost every situation
stig it out dont let things get u down when u know youre worth much more than that :k:
How sad. May God give you strength to hold on.
Please try to be patient by your side. If you are not patient, you will get in more trouble.
I've had situations, which gave me a lot of stress, then I coudln't handle it anymore. And I burst out, in the end you yourself get the blame for everything. If you are not calm, you get all the blame. People don't look at the situation, they only look at you to find mistakes in you. Teh only friend one can have is God.
You know in yourheart how you are, only you and God know your character. Reach out, not to humans, but to God, that's the only advice one could give you, brother. Because humans only try to find mistakes in you. And your parents, well you coudln't be here without them. And you can never repay them, especially your Mom, so try to be patient, I'm no angle myself, sometimes I loose controll, I can be calm for weeks, but if the bubble bursts and I can'ttake it anymore, then I explode...Not good, I know.... try to avoid it! Try to keep your mouth shut. And try to understand, maybe your Dad was raised this way himself adn he doesn't know any better. Maybe there is a reason for this.
Jsut remember that one day it will all be over. One day, you won't have to take it anymore. I mean, you willg et married one day and escape from all that. Then it will be better. Thta day will come.
I"ll say a prayer for you.
**maybe your Dad was raised this way himself adn he doesn’t know any better. Maybe there is a reason for this. ** Totally agree with this..:k:…and Mal1k…this is what keeps me patient…maybe they couldn’t help it themselves…moreover you are their only son…maybe that’s why they pressurize you bus kismat kee batein hain …some people are burdened with responsibilities.
I don’t know what to say 