one should only get the license only wen he can purchase the car. no other solution is there which seems appropriate to me more than this. why to get urself into mess wen u have all the terms and conditions in front of you? the feelings of ownership would surely rise wen one has a thing already in access.
simplest way out is to decide beforehand that the rukhsati will b the part. if you have sum other obligations then better not to get into it.......
I think Nikkah is a really nice solution to many problems that girls face. It works in favor of the girl's side. In many families, and to a large extent in Islam, engagements are really meaningless- it can broken any day. If we were all perfect Muslims, during your engagement you are not allowed to talk to your fiance, see him, after the introductory sighting. It is to solve this problem , that the Nikkah is done, so that you don't do anything haraam.
Even if the bride becomes pregnant before her "wedding" (rukhasati) it is a perfectly legitimate child (although it may cause other problems), because rukhasati is sort of meaningless in Islam--it is purely a cultural thing.
In Islam, only one ceremony is required and that is the valima (which is to be hosted by the groom's side) after the Nikkah(at the masjid) is done. All other ceremonies are just desi events, and have nothing to do with Islam.
I think Nikkah is a really nice solution to many problems that girls face. It works in favor of the girl's side. In many families, and to a large extent in Islam, engagements are really meaningless- it can broken any day. If we were all perfect Muslims, during your engagement you are not allowed to talk to your fiance, see him, after the introductory sighting. It is to solve this problem , that the Nikkah is done, so that you don't do anything haraam.
Even if the bride becomes pregnant before her "wedding" (rukhasati) it is a perfectly legitimate child (although it may cause other problems), because rukhasati is sort of meaningless in Islam--it is purely a cultural thing.
In Islam, only one ceremony is required and that is the valima (which is to be hosted by the groom's side) after the Nikkah(at the masjid) is done. All other ceremonies are just desi events, and have nothing to do with Islam.
Nikkah is a public announcement of two people tying a knot. If rukhsati has not happened, i.e. parents have not announced the consummation of that marriage, intercourse should not happen. One is allowed to spend time alone with husband/wife after nikkah but they are not to consummate the marriage as the agreement between the two parties was otherwise.
This is because - 1) if husband dies or 2) Nikkah breaks off - then it is to be assumed that the girl is still a virgin (because no rukhsati happened). There is a reason for Nikkah-only ceremony. It does not mean you can do whatever you want. It still has limitations.
Nikkah is a public announcement of two people tying a knot. If rukhsati has not happened, i.e. parents have not announced the consummation of that marriage, intercourse should not happen. One is allowed to spend time alone with husband/wife after nikkah but they are not to consummate the marriage as the agreement between the two parties was otherwise.
This is because - 1) if husband dies or 2) Nikkah breaks off - then it is to be assumed that the girl is still a virgin (because no rukhsati happened). There is a reason for Nikkah-only ceremony. It does not mean you can do whatever you want. It still has limitations.
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Agree.
You can spend time as bf and gf if you want. I myself don't like meeting before marriage.
Better not to meet after nikkah many men impregnate girl and then give divorce or leave.
There are many reasons that's why parents restrict. Otherwise Islamically there is no restrictions.
He says having a boyfriend or girlfriend is quite alright a few posts ago but having a nikah and being intimate with your husband is wrong because he might leave you.
Gr8Heera...there is nothing great about you except for the great hole in your head.
He says having a boyfriend or girlfriend is quite alright a few posts ago but having a nikah and being intimate with your husband is wrong because he might leave you.
Gr8Heera...there is nothing great about you except for the great hole in your head.
