Soak urad/maash ki dal (the white one, skinned & split) for at least two hours. Wash and drain it off and then put it in a food processor with hara dhaniya, harri mirchi, salt, baking soda and a pinch of haldi and grind/pulse it) with water as needed to make a smooth, thick paste.
For the dahi:
I add salt, a couple of pinches of sugar and chaat masala to the yogurt and whip/beat it with a wisk. Add water for your desired consistancy, taste it and adjust your seasonings accordingly.
Heat your oil, and drop in a tablespoon or so as you would bhajiyas/pakoras about 3-5 minutes. Drain them on a paper towel and then drop them in a bowl of water for a couple of minutes, then slightly squeeze to release the water
Arrrange your “barey” in your dish and pour the yogurt mix over it, and drizzle with imli ki chutney and podina ki chutney and a smidgen of chaat masala
For the Baghar:
Heat a little bit of oil in your skillet, and add rai (mustard seeds), zeera, karri pata, and thinly sliced garlic and let it all sizzle and brown and then pour it all over your dahi barey
It’s so amazingly good!!! Let me know how it turns out
I just add little garlic paste, light salt and red chilli to mash daal when blending. Fry into pakoras, soak in water. I don’t garnish with tarka but chutney, chat masala, ground cumin powder, and chopped tomatoes.
Probably the main difference between a tarka dhai bhallay (baray) and non tarka one is that you can eat the former as a main dish with rice or chapati! The later one is eaten as a snack.