Idea of this thread came out after reading different comments in @shaasavera thread on Sibling relationships in your culture.
“Dewar, yeh to hain galay kay Zewar”.. BIL is necklace of SIL… :hmmm:
How do you view Devar Bhabhi relation?
What are important cultural aspect of this relation?
How is your relation with your Bhabhi or Dewar?
Are you Dewar or Bhbhi?
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Devar bhabi Relation = Bhen Bhi Relation , in our culture.
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Dewar is like chota bhai in sub-continent’s Culture. I think there is a custom in Punjabis probably, where devar sits in new Bhabhi’s gaudi to get shagun ka paisa
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hahahaha. Indian Punjab ka mujy nhe pata, magr Pakistani punjab ma asa koi custom nhe ha. Tusi gusa he kar gaye ho…! 
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Is there any Pakistani movie on this topic?
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I think someone told me this here on GS. BTW, the way relationship between devar and Bhabhi is mentioned in ‘Kalia doriya kunde naal laRiye o’, I can see that there might be such custom in such culture and there is nothing to feel awkward about it.
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lol. Noooo. That’s only if the devar is some 7-8 year old child, and they mostly carry out this rasam probably to symbolically signify the idea that bhabi is like a mother, in the same way the older brother is like a father to his young siblings. It’s not even a popular Punjabi custom.
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Hip Hip Hurray (Devar Bhabi)
HIP HIP HURRAY -pakistani old song - Video Dailymotion
Ahmed Rushdi - Hip Hip Hurray (Devar Bhabi) - YouTube
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Can’t imagine what would happen if the above mentioned rasam was carried out with an adult male 
… Tauba!
anyway…
Like @Princejall said devar-bhabhi relationship is seen as a big sister-younger brother thing and mostly it’s something that is portrayed as a relationship full of *hasi mazak *but I do think it also depends a bit upon the family dynamics, in some families there is a strict pardah etc from devars/jeths.
Anyway, I’ve a Jeth. I see him the same way I see my big brothers. He is *always *on my side, thank God for that because I’ve a devar as well - a complete namoona - who is *never *on my side. Usse bhai ki chamcha giri karne se aur GIF Guru bananey se fursat nahi 
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GIF Guru? 
Are you talking of @Ethan_Hunt
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Aap kitno ko jaantey ho?
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Dewar - a complete namoona… :omg:
Is Ethan your dewar?
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ye kya ho raha hai yaha? 
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GIF Guru paRh kar Ethan ka hi naam zehn main aaya
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aqalmando ke liye ishara kafi hota hai 
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On my side of the family, I have one sister-in-law. I have a pretty good relationship with her. I view her as a sibling as she and my brother dated for AGES (4 years or so) prior to even getting engaged, so she’s gotten to know our family quite well. I actually think I’m more on the same page with her than with my brother. 
On my husband’s side I have two sister-in-laws and 3 brother-in-laws (one of whom is my husband’s identical twin). I get on well with them too. I view them as family as I’ve gotten to know them quite a bit (as I’ve known my husband since my last year of high school). I don’t get to see them much these days though as we recently moved to another city.
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It used to be brother sister before. But it is chaning.
Nowadays the ‘bhabies’ are suddenly aware of the islamic rulings on this matter ONLY.
Infact, it is a often cited as a reason for ‘alehdgi’ aka married son to move out of the in laws house - because the house might be infested by BILs.
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Abhi tu kuch nahi kaha ja sakta … deewar or bhabi ka relation is like a sister and brother … ye last question bara acha pocha hai ..
App apna bataye @mahool aap bhi tu kisi ke dewar ya jeith hungey 
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Really? I’m not Punjabi lekin maine pehle nahi suna. Lekin hota hoga