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This debate is between **Lethal Kamikaze **VS **Aaliyahkhan1 **on the subject **Destiny or Coincident…Fall in love with a person at first sight **, where LKK share with us his views about falling in love with a person at first sight coincidently and aaliyahkhan1 will tell us the its a destiny to fall in love with a person at first sight.
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re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
Coincident - Falling in love with a person at first sight:
Its a destiny or coincident 
as i’m given coincident topic i’ll try to talk about it. I think falling in love with a person at first sight is a coincident because we didn’t know at such such place and time, we will gonna see a person whom with we will gonna fall in love at first sight. Obviously, that person wouldn’t the alone person on such such place nor we have met that person before and never thought that at such such place our heart will gonna choose, our mind will gonna think about and we will gonna fall in love with that person. I think its a coincident because every situation from beginning to ending is exist, because whatever happening coincidently its actually happening in real.
So i think falling in love with a person at first sight is no doubt a coincident.
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
Interesting viewpoint… :k:
I wonder what answer Aaliyakhan will give… but you have definately set the ball rolling Lethal Bhai… well done this is one very interesting topic and I will be watching it closely 
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
lets c what happen at the end
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
.Good luck LKK and Aaliyahkhan1…:k:
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
As participants are allowed two post on subject and not more than that. Here i’ll illustrate the coicident love with this image 
**Situation 1: **We met that person (whom we fall in love at first sight) and looked at the sky where cloud was in a heart shape. This is the sing of love, a coincident.
**Situation 2: **I looked at the heart shaped cloud at the sky and thought “who is that behind the cloud” suddenly my sight went between many faces to face on that I fall in love at first sight. What a coincident is it my love was hidden behind many faces same as something hidden behind that cloud.
Hope you understand what i’m trying to say here
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re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
Oh yeas loud and clear… 
Seriously I am glad we did this it’s a very good way of expressing our ideas within a debate setting.
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
So I am one of those silly romantics...I believe that love can conquer ALL, and I also believe that everyone you meet in life you meet for a reason, because you are meant to meet these people...I believe that every thing is predetermined.
I don't say that just coz you fall in love at first sight, and that you believe it is destiny that things will be all rosy on the horizon. I believe that everyone you meet and have a connection with will have something new to teach you in life..because these are lessons that need to be learnt..so that what ever future decisions you make in life will be done with a wealth of experience.
I read a book once about soul mates, where it says that soul mates does not mean it is the person you live for the rest of your life with..not does it mean that there is only one soul mate for you...soul mates are the ones who teaches you valuable lessons in life..they might also be the people who hurt you the most in life...but they are also the people who make you stronger in life. I believe meeting your soul mates is also destiny.
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
This is coincident that we spend our life with a person without knowing that in fact we love each others. Maybe its our destiny to be with each others without falling in love. Perhaps, coincidently such situation can happen due to that we fall in love like we were together at a place suddenly we both touched each others hands while picking up a glass of water.
Touching of hands might be a coincident and thereupon reaction of it resulted as some feeling born in ourself like feeling of love which was hidden in ourself a long time ago. Its a coincident same as wide vs direction which were determined where love were born, is called love at first sight, coincidently.
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
^could you please clarify you last paragraph..I didn't quite get your meaning..if you don't mind :@:
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
Destiny i guess it was my destiny to express my views on the topic Destiny but what a coincident, i hav been given topic **coincident **to share my veiws on it. I prepared myself for the subject ‘Destiny’ but here the destiny wasn’t meant for me perhaps it was for my opponent where my opponent said every thing is predetermined. But the POV is that my oppenent wasn’t aware about it at all that she will gonna have debate with me on this date & time with such such topic? Simple logical answer is that my opponent doesn’t aware about it and she came here, chosen the topic and started debate, so now its happeing in real and i call it Coincident b’coz everything which happening around us is in real.
The above is the example of coincident beacuse we come to a unkown place meet many many unknown pplz and attact towards themselves and fall in love at first sight with one of them. Its a circle of coincident not destiny, and if it is destiny then surely we’ll know who will be the winner of this debate. 
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
OK…thanks for your clarification.
Now…how do you know it was just coincidence to pick up the glass…like I said..I believe everything is predetermined..so even the miniscule detail of touching hands is part of the plan of you meeting that person.
What I believe is that it is destiny to meet ppl in life…but it is the choices you make after that meeting that makes or breaks a relationship. Like for eg. me coming on to GS. I believe it was destiny…I was looking for something on Islam..and up popped GS!!! I signed on without thinking twice about it. I met a lot of nice human beings here..and some not so nice too…then you make a choice who you want to remain friends with and who you let go. I believe it is destiny coz I was searching about Islam…any other very religious forum should have popped up..but it was GS which has mix of everything. Served two purposes finding GS…found friends who I could ask questions about Islam easily..and got to learn about Pakistani culture.
I have personal experiences with destiny..Sometimes I do things that I would NEVER even DREAM of doing…sometimes its like watching a train wreck…there is no stopping it. I also feel that sometimes when there is no one to guide you in your life…destiny guides you..gives you the options..gives you the choices to make..takes you on the choice of path you made..and depending on those consequences gives you the next fork on the road..and it is all up to you..you can take the right path..or you can be stubborn and still head the wrong way and face more consequences. I feel love, and life is all like that…
I know a guy who let the most amazing girl who came into his life go..after she was gone..he sat and wondered why he could not see the inner beauty and love she brought into his life when she was there…why he only realised it when it was too late to go back to her. Destiny brought them together..then the choices he made when he was travelling down that road tore them apart.
Sorry if I am just rambling on 
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
Interesting! but lil bit off the track :)
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
ok..you wrote post number 11 while I was still writing my debate..should have waited na 
Anyways..it is called destiny..you were preparing for it…but someone else (me) came along and swept it from right under your feet…now you are trying to convince yourself that it is not destiny but that it is coincident.
See it was destiny that brought us together as friends…you could have just said to me “Aaliyah…I already prepared for destiny..you take coincidence”, instead you just agreed…see, destiny had other plans for you…it was my destiny to meet you…you have an amazing heart and you are a great human being..nice ppl always meet nice ppl 
(now please don’t go and fall in love with me…hahahah )
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
I know it is not talking mainly about love at first sight...love at first sight is just like everything else in life...destiny guides you to that person..it is up to you to make the choice of whether you will take that step..or walk away from it. And a lot of ppl walk away from it coz they think it is impossible to fall in love at first sight. Some ppl take the step coz they are curious to see where it goes...and I am one of those curious ppl...when they say "Curiosity killed the cat" it is soooo true :D
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
post 11 is part of my debate not just a comment. The blue color font is my debate
Faris Bhai 
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
I know it is part of your debate
Why you looking for Faris bhai…dar gaya kyaaaa? 
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
dara nahi 
Faris bhai is moderating this thread 
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
Very nice debate going on. Now I am confused - is life a coincidence or destiny. Is the winner destined to win or would that be a coincidence.
Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
re: Destiny or Coincident [GS Debate Group - 4] - Won By Aaliyahkhan1
Whoops Looks like the action got serious when I was sleeping.
Okay Lethal bhai I would ask that you highlight points more clearly perhaps using my method of spliting writing into chunks so that we can understand it better.
AliyaKhaan your arguments are superb but please refrain from posting consequtively, if you need to add to your posts feel free to add extra bits by editing… Also stop name calling each other… I know its all freindly but still to other visitors it gives the wrong impression I know we are all friends here but new users might think not if we call each other silly names… Humour aside and I can be funny and appreciate it sometimes lets not make fun at someones expense.
Okay carry on now and play nice both of you.
The actaul debate itself is superb as a philosophical debate goes this is very good… 
