Looking back at life and some of the choices that were made for you, or you made which were choices that were made by you because there was no other alternative or choices that you made freely…do you think everything was destined and pre written and these wrong choices or choices with no other alterntives which made you heartbroken and sad ta the time were actually blessings in disguise which you realized as time went on.
Do you think life is actually pre written and our destiny is written down before we were even born or we can change destiny or or do you think that we choose our own paths. just want to know peoples different views
Re: DESTINY; Looking back at life, what do you think?
Hmmm. Those times when I was most disappointed or upset at not getting what I wanted somehow were able to turn into biggest life lessons and eventually life either showed me the wisdom behind it or replaced it with something better. Sounds cheesy but the following really resonates with me:
*“You can’t connect the dots looking forward you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something: your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. Because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart, even when it leads you off the well worn path.” *-Jobs
Looking back at my life..i would say..whatever Allah has granted me were and are best thing in the world. Now for challenging experiences..not only i have learnt..but it has made me very strong. You see…we all need to strive for what we want..but if this path was not meant to be..then it is qadr of Allah.
Re: DESTINY; Looking back at life, what do you think?
I don’t know how to say it. But I try
This frame of mind is one frame of mind, not THE frame of mind.
It could come from one’s thinking of his own life as THE life, or THE being.
But if you really think about it, There are other little(to you) being/life just as important, around you.
So you had your deal in life, you go through it with what ever tools you are given, you like some out comes, some you don’t, at same time you can impact other little lives/being around you, you be part of their better “destiny”.
Don’t be so stingy and focused on your self.
