destiny!! confused

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Re: destiny!! confused

@Pisiform

You are responsible for your own dest
iny for a big part. If you are not gonna look for spouse, one is not gonna drop into your lap from the sky. If a married guy falls in love and marries a second one, it doesn’t necessarily means it was Allah’s decisions ..even though Allah knows everything, that guy was most probably a player and douche.

I tend to stay away from given Islamic anecdotes but anyways. One of the stories my mom told me growing up was that a man came to Hazrat Ali (AS) and asked that Allah is all powerful and He controls our fate so whats the point since every action is pre-decided. Imam told the man to lift one leg so the man did and he was standing on one leg, then the Imam told him to raise the other leg too. The man said if he raise the other leg, he will fall. Imam said fate is similar,[FONT=Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, san-serif] it is just this much free will which a man possesses that a person can only lift one leg up whilst standing.

[FONT=Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, san-serif]On a separate note, I am sick of hearing about marriage lately idk. I think marriage is over-rated and a scam. So many people are unhappy after marriage and so many are unhappy coz they are not married. Oh well

hazrat muhammad peace be upon him said : nothing can change qadar except dua.
then what does it mean?