despise my live-in BIL's brother

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Re: despise my live-in BIL's brother

Why must you hurt my feelings like that? Wasn't your dad or his dad a Paki import?

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But then your dewar wouldn't do that, because he knows his brother won't be happy. Everyone's husband isn't the same. The family dynamics aren't the same.

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yeah.....in a healthy relationship I would agree with you......
based on what has been shared here, I don't think that any of these relationships are really "healthy"
I wouldn't take a risk with the husband/wife bond.
I would take the risk with the cousin/cousin bond.

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Re: despise my live-in BIL's brother

"accidentally" leave this thread open on his laptop the next time you are with him. He might get mad, angry, etc BUT if everything you wrote here is true, he will be too embarrassed to even admit he read it and this may lead to him changing his behavior.

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He does sound kinda obnoxious. But some of your expectations are way too high. Why should he be massaging your moms taangein? :konfused:

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Yeppp sounds like the average typical slob! Arrghhhh I HATE pakis that act like they are above everything! Flippin twats need to learn to pull their weight around, its not gonna make em any less of a man.

Is there any way that he could possibly leave? Or give him soo much work to do and keep bothering him about it that maybe he'll get outta your hair himself? Or everytime he does summat stupid like expect a glass of water from your sister whose just worked a flippin 12 hour shift, just simply tell him to get it himself and whilst hes there get you and your sister one too. Jeez the guys living with you lot and he cant even do the simplest of things. I think i would have socked him by now if it was me. Just cuz hes a man he thinks he can click his fingers and get whatever the hell he wants, whenever the hell he wants it. I mean he needs to follow your example.

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The guy may be lazy and a user, but he's being blasted for some things that are not OP's concern and that are not as big a deal.

By giving him a huge work load and suggesting other extreme tactics, he may tattle to his family who will then make life miserable for his sister. She is the reason that they need to tread carefully and think twice before attempting any confrontation.

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Learn to be a saboteur my friend, don't let this jerk get away with it. He has to be a real low life bullying you guys on premise of your sisters well being. Rinse his tooth brush in the toilet bowl, spit in his food. Use your imagination. Then when he's being mean just think of what you did and chuckle. Make him get sick.

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I can't believe some of the things that i'm reading. wow

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so wht happened? :/

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If he claims to be a good Muslim, why the hell did his family ask for dowry from your family, that's really unIslamic.

I say you kick that ****er out