Re: desperatly confused newly wed
i'm confused aswell after reading your post. ur making all this noise and CHIKH CHIKH now. where were u when u were getting married to him? in Kathmandu or Mogadishu? its not like u woke up 1 morning and u were married. had u make enough effort b4 marriage things could have been different. u have no complaints about the guy or his family. so the only person who is to blame in all this is YOU or your parents for not listening to u [if u ever tried to make them listen to begin with]. you are the one whining and crying now. pehlay sochna nahe aur phir baad main dosron ki zindagi bhi kharab kartay hain. ur the culprit here, not the victim. so just swallow the bitter pill of reality and try to live a happy fulfilling life with ur loving husband and caring in-laws.