desperatly confused newly wed

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Re: desperatly confused newly wed

@arshad5

Give yourself some time and in due course you should start to love him. Try to get to know each other better and become intimate. You have to make an attempt and give the marriage your best shot otherwise there was no point in getting married.

@Dushwari

just a thought: you married him. bring out the best in him, with no surprises or looking down upon him or hating him. he is your husband.
best,
Dushwari

@arshad5

Marriage is a serious institution and running away from it is not an option.

@Lusi

If the guy really loves you, his family is amazing, then I think you should try working it out. Those of us living abroad at times have a very bais opinion about people in pakistan. Maybe try to take yourself out of that whole “typical Pakistani guy” thinking and try discovering a new person in him based on his personal qualities, character, love, and respect for you.

^ :k:

Just like others…i am also wondering what it is about him that you dont like…I can’t comment much about the situation until I know exactly what it is.

Keep in mind that in arranged marriages…especially when the couple are total strangers…it takes time (for the girl especially) to get intimate. i would think that it’s hard for most girls to get intimate if they dont feel any love for their husband.