Re: desperatly confused newly wed
wow, what a sad post. I feel really bad for you. The question you have to ask is this. Your parents didn't care about your happiness when they forced you to get married. Why should you care about their happiness. If I were you, I would just go to the embassy. Plus, your husband doesn't seem like a bad guy. By staying with him, you are not only ruining your life, but you are ruining his.
By the way, expect to get responses that are completely different from mine. Pakistanis, those living in pakistan and even abroad are close-minded to the core. They'll probably tell you to tough it out. Just remember one thing, you will be the one "toughing it out" not them.
If this was just any other "I hate my husband/in-laws thread" i'd agree w/ you completely, but not in this case.
I don't think this is just about sex as other people are mentioning here, there's always something more to it. I'm guessing that the parents didn't hold a gun to your head and make you sign the nikkah-nama, so you have every obligation to make it work.
If the husband and in-laws are good people and they treat you with respect and kindness, then you owe it to them to at least try. Stop focusing on the past and under which circumstances you met,a nd just concentrate on the present and if possible, the future.
Divorce should never be the first option and it should only be exercised in extreme cases.