So i hear this term all the time..
that ‘desi’ guys are too much desperate or frustrated which makes them behave disrespectfully/rudely towards females…
my question is..
what is the reason for those guys being desperate/frustrated in your view?
and
how can this problem be solved/tackled in the society?
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Oh when I saw the title… I thought Wahaay a thread about Desperadoes!
But now I see it’s another Men v Women thread… 
Maybe we men blame our slow loss of control on Women growing more powerfull what with all the equality measures and all. Pffft
Personally both sides have thier own roles… theres no such thing as Gender Equality in my books.
As for Desi guys in particular, define Desperates?
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Every guy with an ounce of desiness 
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Yes but Desperate? It can have a million meanings?
For example I am desperate to go back to Pakistan someday… but I doubt all Desi fellows in my shoes think the same? 
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So why don’t you? 
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Aaah Kismet main jo likha hain wo kabul karna partha hain… 
Seriously theres good reason why I am stuck in Limbo but it’s Allah ka shukkar a temporary rest period so to speak in Pakistan I have some real work to get back to.
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Desperate and frustrated they definitely are, but they are a million times less disrespectful as compared to foreign born pakis.
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HEY HEY!! desi girls are just as desprete.
Obviously, I don't count though
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Is this the DDA meeting? The Desperate Desi's Annyomous meeting? Good. It seems I am in the right place.
Hello everybody. My name is CM and I am a Desperate Desi. Why? No clue. It is something other people call me. Oddly enough they are only desi females. Goris are a-okay with me. Oh well where is the chai?
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I reckon Desperate Desi is the generalized image of an average desi bloke with his sausage lodged into his head because he isn't getting any action. And that social dilemma can be resolved by getting laid. What exactly is the confusion here?
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so much my eyes are falling out of their sockets
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It’s cuz you know, 
frig man not again
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LMAO! Its easier to post with just one nick.
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LMAO! Its easier to post with just one nick.
blah...i like the post count on the other one...it's so...nice and even ya know.
i should close firefox :o
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but those who get laid before shaadi are ‘players/mansluts’ and guys of bad character…so it comes down to
Either
Not getting laid = despo
or
getting laid= bad character
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^ You missed one.
Getting laid and not telling anyone = shareef aadmi.
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^ You missed one. Getting laid and not telling anyone = shareef aadmi.
right!! he is usually 'the one' :D
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And then they fall in love as soon as they are engaged with them. A few months later they realize he is not a great guy but they believe that their love can change said person.
2 years later they post on GS complaining about their Husbands, MIL and wonder how it all went wrong.
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And then they fall in love as soon as they are engaged with them. A few months later they realize he is not a great guy but they believe that their love can change said person.
2 years later they post on GS complaining about their Husbands, MIL and wonder how it all went wrong.
and we sit here and tell them how they should break it off and find someone who respects her blah blah.
2 years later, they're back complaining about the hard life they live as a single parent. GS then asks her why she would break off a marriage over nothing, why not believe in her love to change her husband.
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^ lol
Great wisdom just pouring in this thread.