Desiness

What Desi Traits or qualities would you want your kids to have/not to have??

Like Desi traits which you have but you don’t want those in your kids…kind of like eliminating desiness from your bloodline…

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I would want them to keep their family values, Punjabi language, be able to eat lots of mirchi food!

What I wouldn't want them to keep is the mysogny that desi men are some kind of gift, weird pir/magic ideas, gossiping, racism and obsession with money!

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Desi do not have any traits worth losing . They are all good. Mokamal good and good he good. :snooty:

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^ oh yeah I wouldnt want my kids to suffer from desi superiority complex

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:D

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Other than desi superstition it's all good.

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1st define desiness ?

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whatever comes to your mind......

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  • Language
    • Food
    • Religion
    • Clothes
    • Childhood spankings?

etc.

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I am a desi and i want my kids to be pure desis inshALLAH :-p

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Religion
Language
Food
Clothing (I want them to love it as much as I do)
Morality

Donts:
Narrow mindedness
Superstitions
Inferiority complex

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religion, language, food, values, clothing

not--being late, using religion as an excuse for being ignorant and lazy, superstitous, etc