There are some things that you like keeping to yourself, no matter how close you are to someone. Do you feel at times desi people like to interfere too much in peoples lives? What could be the cause? People not being able to see others happy and always wanting to know that things aren’t right? Are only desis gifted with this quality or people generally are like that?
Desi women love to bring you a home-made dish. My theory: So they can peek inside your house.
If you are surrounded by desis (God help you!) your life will turn into an episode from "Desperate Housewives".
Take a look MKD 
Re: Desiness?
Conspiracy theory?
Re: Desiness?
tell them harmless information
use the cliches - theek houn, Allah ka shukar hai, aap sunaye etc