Re: Desi wives
Desi wives married within Pakistan depend merely on different aspects. Some get married in families that are very strict so they are very much suppressed. They also hide their real emotions and come cry on their mother's shoulders when they come. They do all work themselves and are like servants to the hubby and in-laws. Whereas there are others, who are good wives yet again but are more liberal. They easily demand for their needs, have lots of servants to do their work and are very strong in their characters that no matter what in-laws do they dont really care for them.
Desi Girls, with no comparison to anyone, mostly (not always) make great wives for people abroad. Most of them completely handle the kids, the house, etc everything when they go abroad. They are ready to go all the way to adjust in the new envt and to help out their husbands as much as they can.They are not that liberal so they try to make a home out of that that is available. They are mostly the very submissive form i.e. they believe hubby is ultimate. 4 of my very own female cousins got married, 2 in UK, 1 in U.S and 1 in Canada. They all made perfect homes for their husbands and 10 on 10 scores for them on how they have maintained till now.
Never have i witnessed or heard of any couple who has ended up on a divorce where the girl was from Pakistan and the boy was a Pakistani living abroad. Mostly, major problems have occurred where girls are from abroad and boys are from Pakistan as the boy is considered conservative etc.
The ratio in my relatives and acquaintances of the imported wives from Pakistan has always been highly successful. As for those who were married within Pakistan vary from factors to factors.