Re: desi totkas for conceiving soon.
^^^
Thats a great totka
not desi but brilliant nonetheless
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well the reason why India and China have such a big population is because their spouse is in the same country enjoying each other :P
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here u go mrscupcake
my diet plan was very simple.... i was eating 5-6times a day... i had these options
6 a.m. breakfast--- an apple,paratha with omelete//3brown bread slices with omelete or boiled egg with a cup of banana milkshake... 10 a.m. snack----two peanut butter sandwiches with a glass of fresh orange juice//cereal with an apple and strawberries 2 p.m. lunch----daal or any vegetable with roti and a bowl of salad 5 p.m. teatime----a mug of tea with digestive biscuits//one cup yogurt with guava or berries mixed in it 8 p.m. dinner----meat...chicken,fish,beef or mutton with roti,salad
i was also taking 3-4 almonds everyday... 8glasses of water everyday
*dont drink water on empty stomach for those who r pregnant...(before conceiving i used to drink 2 glasses on empty stomach) *take almonds or a fruit right after u wake up in morning so that u will not get the morning sickness *always keep a pack of digestive biscuits or any snack u like at ur side table at nite *dont drink cold drinks/junk food/oily fried foods/spicy foods *try to make parathas in very less amount of oil *reduce the amount of sugar in ur diet *dont drink cold water or cold milk *20 mins walk or exercise or yoga for pregnant ladies....(before conceiving i used to go for a walk for an hour and one hour exercise daily)
Thanks!
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the most important thing is to have sex at the right time of the month. if you're only seeing him for a limited time, and its not coinciding with your fertile days, then taking clomid, eating healthy etc. isn't really going to help you. you need to let him know when your fertile days are, and then see if he can arrange leave during those times.
but here's a question: are you prepared to be pregnant and alone for most of your pregnancy? its something both of you need to go through and experience together. pregnancies come in all forms and some can be difficult and i think all of them are emotional times in one's life. and if things aren't going to change in your current situation, are you ready to be a single parent for 10 months of the year?
parenting isn't easy! it definitely takes more than just one parent to raise a child. inlaws and family can be helpful, for sure, although i'm not sure how much in your case since you're getting flak from your MIL who obviously has no idea how reproduction works, but your child isn't their child. ultimately, its up to you and your husband to take care of the baby. think about that, too, before you give in to pressure and rush to get pregnant. what kind of a relationship would your husband have with your kid if he seems him/her once a year for two months, and vice versa? and what makes you think he would change his mind and allow you to live with him once the baby does come?
i seriously think you first need to get on stable ground with your husband and make it clear to him that you are not prepared to get pregnant to please his parents, nor are you prepared to continue living with them unless he is there too, with or without child. without that sorted, i can only foresee continuing problems in your future.
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Without financial independence/strength and/or support from her family the op isn't in much of a position to bargain upfront. She can perhaps with time and subtlety convince her husband otherwise. God forbid she tries to be more forthcoming in her demands and ends up in a worse situation.
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^ true. but adding a baby into the mix isn't wise at this point either, imho.
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yeah you guys are right .A baby can’t fix this issue but i have tried every other option and this is the last thing i want to try.A baby can change his attitude.he will prefer to live with his baby than living alone.And with a baby my position will be strong to take any side.He could leave his wife for his parents but not his child that easily.i have seen many men change after having babies; they become more caring towards their spouse.
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^ this is very common in pakistan.
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Well I hope there is no gender preference then! Prayers for you