Desi Taboos

muqawwee123 · February 4, 2014, 1:14pm

List down some taboos prevalent in desi society.

Marriage with widow?

KKF · February 4, 2014, 1:17pm

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marrying a prostitute? :D

Jolie · February 4, 2014, 1:19pm

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Adoption

KKF · February 4, 2014, 1:21pm

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marrying a sister of a murderer brother or father. :)

muqawwee123 · February 4, 2014, 2:01pm

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How about ‘kunwari apne munh se bar maange’?

KKF · February 4, 2014, 2:06pm

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lol…u mean VAR…?

suyamvar karvaaye! mujhe aisii hii laRkii kii talaash hai jo Khud rishta bheje…lol

aap bhii apnaa tareeqa e kaar badaliye!

Microbian · February 4, 2014, 2:07pm

You mean girl proposing a boy?

muqawwee123 · February 4, 2014, 2:08pm

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baRi booRhiyan kehti thi 'qurb e qayaamt main kanwari apne munh se khasam maange gi' . lols

muqawwee123 · February 4, 2014, 2:10pm

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Girls asking for herself to get married. I remember desi ammas saying to their kaale kalote sons ‘mera shehzada laakhon main ek hai.. baRa hoga to laRkiyan apni amma se kahen gi mujhe iss se shadi karni hai’

muqawwee123 · February 4, 2014, 2:11pm

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They do adopt. First it was children of some family member / relatives and lately, there is a trend for adapting children outside family. I personally know 2-3 cases from rural Sindh, who adapted children outside family.

Microbian · February 4, 2014, 2:14pm

Acha amma sy kahen ge but now they ask the boy directly and later inform their parents
Trend change ho gaya hy

KKF · February 4, 2014, 2:14pm

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vo kaNwaarii laRkii jo apne maaN baap se zid kare k vo uskii shaadii kar deN.

India meN merii ek jaane waale haiN jinkii beTii kii zehnii Haalat bahot achchhii nahiiN rahtii...kabhii kabhii jab Khunnas chaRhtii hai to vo apne maaN baap kaa jaanaa doobhar kar detii hai...din raat shor sharaaba karti hai aur demand kartii hai k uskii shaadii kar dii jaaye.

ab aisii laRkii se kaun shaadii karegaa.. :( sad situation for both the girl and her parents.

muqawwee123 · February 4, 2014, 2:16pm

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Desiyon pe qayaamat kiyun nahin tooti

One more taboo, girl going outside country / city alone (say for study)

Microbian · February 4, 2014, 2:18pm

So why her parents are not marrying her?
Larki me koi burai hy kia jo us sy koi shadi nahi kry ga?

KKF · February 4, 2014, 2:21pm

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bataayaa to k uskii zehnii Haalat saHeeH nahiiN hai...she is mentally challenged.

Microbian · February 4, 2014, 2:26pm

I don’t think it’s a taboo now

KKF · February 4, 2014, 2:26pm

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laRkiyoN kaa jeans pahenna taboo hai.

abhii recently maulana Diesel ne farmaayaa k “KP meN jeans pahenne waali NGO’s Hukoomat kar rahii haiN!”

abhii kuchh mahiine pahle AligaRh ke ek gaaoN meN ek laRkii ko jeans pahenne par mob ne use jalaa diyaa aur jab maaN use bachaane aayii to use bhii jalaa diyaa…double murder!

23 young men and 5 women were arrested for their involvement in the double murder…let’s see if the justice will be meted out to them.

KKF · February 4, 2014, 2:27pm

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shahroN meN nahiiN rahaa magar dehii ilaaqoN meN aaj bhii soorat e Haal nahiiN badli...70% Indians live in villages after all.

muqawwee123 · February 4, 2014, 2:42pm

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in rural areas, traveling of a lady alone is still a taboo.

muqawwee123 · February 4, 2014, 2:43pm

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that is sick.. even majority of ladies in desi society think twice before going to get a bob-cut hair style