Desi shaadi

[Ghost14]

Re: Desi shaadi

@madz124

Yes. Experienced the uncomfortable feeling of being watched by everyone as a totally random guy awkwardly tries to approach you at a desi event. If you must, try to find out if one of your female friends attending the wedding is friends with the girl you’re interested in. You can have your friend casually ask the girl if she is single and looking, in which case your friend can introduce you two and a group of three doesn’t raise as much suspicion as you cornering the girl on your own.

Last year I was at a friend’s sister’s wedding. One of dulha’s friends spotted me and asked my friend to introduce him. She came up to me and said, hey come I want to introduce you to some friends. We went to the table where dulha’s bhai, bhabi and his friends were sitting. She did a brief intro, I sat there for a bit, talked a little then excused myself. Later, she told me what was going on and if I was interested in talking to that guy. I wasn’t, so I politely declined. But this way I wasn’t self-conscious or uncomfortable and no one got to know about it.

But that’s how I roll. How else are you supposed to fraaandship a girl?

@Hadeel

So I guess it’s just me who has never been approached by a random guy(s) at a wedding? Maybe cause I’m not pretty.

I’m sad now.

Don’t worry, I’ve never been approached by a random guy at a wedding either.