Re: Desi parenting ish-style
one thing i absolutely HATED growing up was my dad comparing results of me and my brother (we r 10 mnths apart and studied same classes together). my dad wouls quite openly favor me for him and i always felt guilty...i promise not to do that nor let hubby do that.
my mum was ALWAYS going on about wat would people say? loads of stuff would be happening in thier households but my mum ignored that and if we (for eg) got a c grade, mum would be like ómg, wat will peple say? we have a stupid child" nasty thing to live for the world....