I do respect parents but it doesn’t mean if a Mother wants their son or daughter to marry some person they feel zero attraction or spark with she can get her way by churning out the ‘I gave birth to you’ line. I’ve seen many many parents act this way, they use that line (as well as ‘Heaven is at your Mother’s feet’ - which of course it is but interpret it as meaning they can act however they like without any recourse) to manipulate situations and emotionally blackmail their kids into doing things they don’t feel comfortable with..