Desi Muslim Dating in the West

[bella88]

Re: Desi Muslim Dating in the West

@pinks

I have not judged anyone! It’s calling a spade a spade. Premarital relationship are a sin. Period. Shareef folks do not indulge in it for fear of sinning/ fear of hurting their folks.

being nonshareef and nonreligious are two different things. whats shareef to your religious ideology is not the same for someone elses. so anyone who commits any sin is not shareef then, right? that should include any woman that does not wear a hijab, anyone who listens to music, anyone who looks at a female after the first glance, anyone who does not pray 5 times a day, etc… seems like the country is full of nonshareef people then.

In a country where **some ** families would kill their daughters if she were seen just talking to a guy, how do you suppose that there’d be enough girls to brave risking their lives to go out on a date? I don’t know why you think Pakistani thinking has “evolved” so much that most people would date. It hasn’t.

there are some animals that would kill their daugthers for that yes, but that still doesn’t stop people from dating hence you hear about these vicious ‘honor’ killings frequently. secondly, these killings dont happen as frequently in major cities. please go to quaid e azam ka mazaar one day and see how many lower/middle class people go their on dates in burqas. richer defence kids go to cafes and restaurants.