Re: Desi Muslim Dating in the West
Please point out WHERE I wrote that dating doesn’t exist in Pakistan? Read my posts again. I said it does.
Reha claimed it was as much in Pakistan as it is overseas. I don’t accept that.
You used the word “extreme”, so explain how you know it is extreme. I asked first 
My opinion is based on currently living here. I know people who are rich/ poor as well as educated/ uneducated. MOST of these people have not dated.
Getting to know a prospect for marriage where family is involved is very different to college students dating (where there no solid plans to marry as their circumstances don’t allow it). Being involved in the former is sharafat and the latter, not. In fact it’s a sin to be romantically involved with some out of marriage… So how can any shareef Muslim be involved in this?
And love is not a ditch that you accidentally fall in, it’s very much intentional.