Cite your sources. That is absurd you keep trying to say that Muslim American couples get divorced relatively more than others in society. The American divorce rate stands with Norway at the world’s highest. 53%! The most cited Muslim American divorce rate is 33% off of an early and probably unrepresentative (I think less than 60 couples, all south Asian) study in the late 90s at Rutgers.
Again bella I think i’ve been very respectful in my conversations with you, but this idea that all Muslims are somehow bad, abusive without any sort of statistics, maybe justifying your own marriage (I don’t judge you for it) with a white Catholic dude, is not a way to address your own insecurities, or bettering dialogue of serious issues within our own community. I refuse to accept the idea that all Muslims men have x quality, based off of negative media stereotypes, bad experience in your first marriage, with which I empathize, Muslim/Pakistani/Arab men is such a diluted term and refers to a plethora of demograhics, educatoinal level (you think UK Saudi, American desis have the same place in their respective societies?), and cultures. This is bigotry and self hatred at its worst