Re: Desi Muslim Dating in the West
Again a generalization, they have some of the lowest STD rates, and divorce rates too. I don’t know about their pre-martial flings though
Personally most Muslims I know, especially those born in the States (vs those coming from overseas) dont do anything before marriage, especially penetrative.
On dating, I know VERY few who do it, and personally I keep myself too busy to be involved in time wasting ****t like that. You’re 22 when you graduate from college need a solid 3-5 years work experience to get anywhere in today’s economy. Banks and Med schools aren’t taking low grades in either, so you better be a focused young 4 years in college. Has there been temptation? Of course, but I think to myself I waited 25 years,why not a few more to share with the woman I love? Also self-preservation and pleasure leads you to learn about yourself and your own body and sexuality.
Part of the experience of self-denial is self-control and bettering oneself, focusing on more important issues like what makes a good wife, coming to greater realizations, like why people who live, ****, and sleep together have far higher divorce rates than those who don’t. Largely because marriage has become trivialized, when you get all those things before marriage.