Desi Miss Manners.

And that's why you clarify in advance like I said.

I feel that when people invite you they have obviously put in the effort to prepare a nice meal, at least to the best of their capability. So it's a bit rude to show any kind of negative.

We have a friend who doesn't really cook well, at least to our taste, but at her home, we usually pick one of the 3-4 items that we like the most and focus on appreciating that.

Hey, at the end of the day, if you make someone happy, or at least not hurt their feelings, that's good enough.