Re: Desi men
Difference of cultures.
For a non-desi guy it’s no big deal to see a girl wear extra tight clothes, getting hugs from girls, going out to lunch just one on one (but not a date), etc. because that’s what they have been seeing all their life, it’s no big deal. So desi girls don’t think twice about talking to non-desi guys.
But you know from our culture, boys and girls are meant to keep a distance, so if a desi guy invites you over, it’s so out of the norm that you DO think twice about their intentions.
But than again, this is coming from a girl who wouldn’t go to ANY guys place for even 10 minutes.