for so many desi men atleast in the west.. they're in such profession that requires a lot of sitting down... be it in some office, truck driving, cab driving, or even pizza deliveries etc...flattening the tidd isnt really a priority for them.
PS: desi aunties like their men to have wadda jea tidd ..it makes them feel good about them and they feel that he aint gonna get into extra marital affairs this way.
in our culture a man with a tidd is a well fed man......supposedly!! I often hear desi aunties telling women...."hawww tum kana nahi kilathi apne shahur ko" if he is skinny or lean.
what is wrong with these women!!