Why do desi grandmothers love their daughter's kids more than their son's children lolz ? I have seen this in majority of desi families..
Probably because the daughters are much nicer to them than their sons.
Because un ko evil bahu ki jhalak nazar aati hai un bachon main. Duh!
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Why do desi grandmothers love their daughter’s kids more than their son’s children lolz ? I have seen this in majority of desi families..
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I thought it was the opposite.
Oh thats trrue and my Khala says this all the time. She says its very natural. And hey its not grandmother only. I have seen grandfathers as well
what RV said. mother in-laws and daughter in-laws usually beef cause of jealousy, so daadis don’t like their sons kids as much cause they see their daughter in laws in them lol. Same reason why khalas tend to be nice than phupos.
I think both naanis & daadis love all their grand children. I wouldn’t know because the only grandparent I saw alive was my naani. But I have heard stories about all my grand parents. As per those stories, grandparents love all their grand children without discrimination.
yeah, incase of joint families, sons children enjoy most love and time from them for obvious reasons.
Actually I read it wrong. Thought its only about grand children. Ok I dont know if they love more from daughter than son. It usually is the same, no? Unless there is a family drama involved.
I don’t know if this is true or not.. but I can imagine, if a naani did love her daughter’s kids more, it could be because she was closer to her daughter. and/or, it’s her beti ka ghar and all, and usually, the girls side of the family will always suck up to the son in laws, hence, love the kids more too to ensure the daughter’s happiness in her sasural
I love how true this is. No idea why, though.
Daughters give more authority to nani in dealing with grandchildren. Bahus do not- bahus watch and even search for remote issues to tattle about and hold dadi accountable. More love involved when nani/dadi is not worried over petty things jo kisi ko buree lag sakti hain.
Daughters live separately for the most part, so when they come for a visit their kids are treated more special.
Credits: my mami vs. my mommy
My nani is the love of my life, btw.