Desi+Gora Wedding Help!

[Paheli00]

Re: Desi+Gora Wedding Help!

@ma1623

Nikaah will take about 10 −15 minutes in a VERY busy court. I want to dress casual - might even go in jeans.

I just don’t want my fiance and his family to think that they are being excluded from the wedding and it’s all a pakistani wedding.

1. Even at the court house…even if its only for 10-15 minutes…PLEASE do not wear jeans or anything too casual! At the end of the day…that nikaah really is the “actual” wedding. That’s the moment you two become husband and wife!

2. I’m very happy to see that you want to make sure that his family feels included in all this. When deciding your “look”, of course everyone knows that you yourself have a vision as to what you will look like as a bride. But you must also remember that as goras, your fiance and his parents (especially his mother) have also always had a vision of what they wanted their bride to look like. Now is the time to find a balance between both visions.