it may have been my observation, but many of female friends says they dont like asian guys but then still cant stay away from them?
I just wanted to ask girls why are like this?
It can be because of typical asian mentality of guys thing stereotype.
if its ture? yes then reasons? and if they hate asians they why do the still want them around?
Re: Desi Girls hate Desi Guys??
maybe…
but the problem is that only desi guys like desi girls…so poor things have no other choice 
^ Hey that's so not true.
Actually not really. All women hate men in general or make it appear so. But they just cant wait to get sweeped off their feet by one.
If they hated desi guys so much they wouldnt be interested in them. Plus almost every desan has a desi guy sob story so that adds to the hype.
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Agree with CM but I think they do hate desi guys for being so desi or bad about something. cheating, ditching, playing are common blames but again they still into desis.
amazed not to see PCG comments here.
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Lots of desi girls have non-desi boyfriends/husbands etc... the fall of the desi's have begun :(
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What's wrong with that codey? Men marry goris, but if a lady marries a non-desi , that's the "downfall" of the societY?
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I have said it before and i will say it again....Hate is a pretty strong term. And how can you hate someone when you dont even know them? I have quite a few desi girl friends and i have never heard them say they hate desi guys.
Shak it must be the females you know or hang out with! :p
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I don't see a lot of "hate" but I do hear a lot of frustration. Maybe people are confusing the two. It is one thing to hate a group of people, aother thing to be frustrated with the mentality of a group of people.
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Maybe girls "hate" guys because if they decide to deviate from the "norm" , i.e., marry a non-desi, they'll get a lot of criticism and be seen as contributing to the "downfall" of desi people?
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Sara - what does it say then about the men marrying non-desi? That the only people holding it together are the women? Then in a very warped way he might be right since the guys are trying so hard to tear it down?
Ok, I need coffee, just gave myself a headache trying to think along those lines...........
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^ Post # 6
lol. Minah don't worry. I hope ur children won't ever have to come across jerks like that.
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Sara although i mi ght be wrong but i think codey meant it in a joking manner. 
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not true at all. my husband and all his (desi) friends have non desi wives.
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure codeman was joking too, why I joked about it. Just can't tell though in this medium, makes it hard to judge. Can't see faces and reactions.
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haha daym... i was only joking...the few posts i've posted so far have been pretty non-serious.
Sorry if I offended anyone with my itsy bitsy silly behaviour...wut can I do..im such a lil kid :p
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There's a reason why one hates the other. Desi girls who hate (very strong word) desi guys must have a very good reason. I have seen a lot of desi guys just lusting after desi girls or other girls in general. But then again, I have seen similar situation for girls as well, using desi guys to just achieve their mission, that is. Having said that, this is not limited to desi guys or desi girls only. It is every where and it is really up to each individual, be it desi or non-desi. :)
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Malang Baba - Aagin, I think that falls under 'frustrated with' as opposed to 'hate'.
I can complain about my son not picking up his clothes and bitch and moan about the telephone calls from all my daughters girlfriends, but this is frustration, not hate.
I agree it is everywhere and individuals, not just desi women.
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Allah toba toba mujay to goray ki shakal dayk kar hee gusa ata hay… i will never eva get marry to a gora 
mujay to bas ak desi chayay
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Don’t know about elsewhere but in the UK many asian girls have an attitude problem and act very stuck up towards asain lads. This probably stems from the rude boy attitude of many asian guys and the fact that many cannot be trusted. This ‘attitude’ is thus maybe more of a shield or ‘repellant’ (sounds awful doesn’t it) to keep asian guys away 
Well, thats what many female friends have told me:rolleyes:
To me its all a matter of breaking down the initial barrier and once you do, you’ll realise us guys are no different to any other. Not everyone is a rude boy wannabe.