If a guy who’s married to a girl from my family and he dotes on her, he is a good, devoted, great, wonderful, lovely and balanced person.
If a guy from my family is married to a girl and he dotes on her, he is a Joru-Ka-Ghulam, Nikkama and a Biwi ka Naukar…
HA!
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Yeah that sucks… it seems that guys wanna c other women get treated like dirt or neglected or watever, unless it happens to be a woman they’r erelated to :halo: Why iz that ? 
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coz women are considered the honour of the family in our culture; all desi families want their daughters to be well-off, but don’t want their sons to forget their families whilst romancing their wives. 
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^ Well then why the criticism when he's taking care of someone else's daughter? Again it's that whole thing that unless it's their own woman they don't care
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Haha, very true Lajawab.
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errr wrong the biggest issues in the khandaan are women with women, saas with bahoo, bhabhi and nand that kinda shyt.
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Well I’m assuming the ppl calling him a joru ka ghulam, nikkama and whatever are the other guys in his family 
at least that’s what i assumed.. but hey if it’s women doin that then i wud think it’s jus jealousy 
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only another loser man would make such a comment.
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Never come across this, nor have i heard of such nonsense...perhaps only in films and dramas...that is a weird way of thinking which thank God doesn't happen with ppl we know.
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on the money lajawab :k: