Desi culture aur Munh bolay Rishtay

[STA]

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@the_kaur

jyada self respect Haryana and Western UP mein jyada ho gaya hai disturbance

kaur ji, jaan ki aman paon to j ko z say replace kardain. :D

[muqawwee123]

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@STA

kaur ji, jaan ki aman paon to j ko z say replace kardain.

no kaur ji.. jat ki ek hi zaban hoti hai.. bus keh dia

[KKF]

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culture meN chaahe jo bhii ho magar Islam meN inkii koii Haisiyat nahiiN. muNh se kah dene se koii rishta sagaa nahiiN ho jaata aur na hii iske bar muKhaalif baat. rishtoN jaisii izzat denaa alag baat hai magar unko Harf-e-aaKhir kii taraH maannaa naa jaaiz. iski ek misaal Huzoor [saws] ne Khud pesh kii jiskaa 'ilm aapko hogaa hii. cousins ko bhai/bahen maan kar unko sagaa rishtaa denaa aur un se shaadii ke liye is baat ko le kar inkaar karnaa naa-jaaiz hai aur vo banda/bandi gunaah kaa murtakib hotaa/hotii hai kiuN k vo is taraH ek Halaal rishte to Haraam aur vice versa qaraar detaa hai. aise hii muNh bole bhaiyoN aur muNh boli bahnoN ke beech parde kaa uTh jaanaa bhii ek gunaah kii baat hai.

[STA]

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@muqawwee123

no kaur ji.. jat ki ek hi zaban hoti hai.. bus keh dia

zaban sab ki aik hi hoti hai chahy jat ki ho ya non-jat ki ho.

[Faris_Udeen]

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^ @ KKF Ansar and Muhajiroon?

What about Hazrat Ayub Ansari?

Also what about Hazrat Bilal too?

All these people were treated like fammily, the Ansar and Mujiroon were ordered to be brothers and to quit thier worldly values and enemity.

Hazrat Ayub Ansari was a Persian Prince who converted to Islam only after he saw the brotherly love between the sahaba, and Hazrat Bilal was famous for how among the slaves he introduced bay chara as we desi folk call it.

Also the Aws and Kadrij tribes declared peace and fought at Badr alongside the Muslims as “Brothers” do these points have no place in Islam either…

Arey pehlay insaan bano yaar

[muqawwee123]

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@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

culture meN chaahe jo bhii ho magar Islam meN inkii koii Haisiyat nahiiN. muNh se kah dene se koii rishta sagaa nahiiN ho jaata aur na hii iske bar muKhaalif baat. rishtoN jaisii izzat denaa alag baat hai magar unko Harf-e-aaKhir kii taraH maannaa naa jaaiz. iski ek misaal Huzoor [saws] ne Khud pesh kii jiskaa 'ilm aapko hogaa hii. cousins ko bhai/bahen maan kar unko sagaa rishtaa denaa aur un se shaadii ke liye is baat ko le kar inkaar karnaa naa-jaaiz hai aur vo banda/bandi gunaah kaa murtakib hotaa/hotii hai kiuN k vo is taraH ek Halaal rishte to Haraam aur vice versa qaraar detaa hai. aise hii muNh bole bhaiyoN aur muNh boli bahnoN ke beech parde kaa uTh jaanaa bhii ek gunaah kii baat hai.

My dadi used to tell us about the story of a couple in their small town. The lady was a doctor and back in 80s used to drive car and wear jeans in rural Sindh

My dadi told that the lady was a migrant who lost her parents during migration process and a gentlemen (who was in his 30s at the time of partition) adapted the girl. He sent her to medical college and when she became doctor he told her that he has started looking rishta for her. The young lady said that you sacrificed all your life for me so I want to marry you. After some arguments, the guy agreed and they lived happily ever after.

[muqawwee123]

Re: Desi culture aur Munh bolay Rishtay

@Faris_Udeen

^ @ KKF Ansar and Muhajiroon?

What about Hazrat Ayub Ansari?

Also what about Hazrat Bilal too?

All these people were treated like fammily, the Ansar and Mujiroon were ordered to be brothers and to quit thier worldly values and enemity.

**Hazrat Ayub Ansari was a Persian Prince who converted to Islam only after he saw the brotherly love between the sahaba, and Hazrat Bilal was famous for how among the slaves he introduced bay chara as we desi folk call it.
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Also the Aws and Kadrij tribes declared peace and fought at Badr alongside the Muslims as “Brothers” do these points have no place in Islam either…

Arey pehlay insaan bano yaar

Faris I read that Hazrat Ayub Ansari was maternal uncle to the Prophet. Are you sure you are not mixing Harzrat Ayub Ansari (RA) with Hazrat Salman Farsi (RA)?

[Faris_Udeen]

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^ Yes your right Muqawee bhai that was my mistake. But I am sure you still got the point.

Islam does not discourage or directly disaprove of bhai charay or munh bolay rishtay if anything it teaches us to be more carefull and maintain as many bands with people as possible, hence why many argue its a religion or peace love and harmony not just ordering people into a system.

[KKF]

Re: Desi culture aur Munh bolay Rishtay

@Faris_Udeen

^ @ KKF Ansar and Muhajiroon?

What about Hazrat Ayub Ansari?

Also what about Hazrat Bilal too?

All these people were treated like fammily, the Ansar and Mujiroon were ordered to be brothers and to quit thier worldly values and enemity.

Hazrat Ayub Ansari was a Persian Prince who converted to Islam only after he saw the brotherly love between the sahaba, and Hazrat Bilal was famous for how among the slaves he introduced bay chara as we desi folk call it.

Also the Aws and Kadrij tribes declared peace and fought at Badr alongside the Muslims as “Brothers” do these points have no place in Islam either…

Arey pehlay insaan bano yaar

you are confusing ‘muNh bole rishte’ with ‘muslim brotherhood’…‘‘brother in faith and sister in faith’’ do NOT qualify as real [blood] brothers and sisters.

@muqawwee123

My dadi used to tell us about the story of a couple in their small town. The lady was a doctor and back in 80s used to drive car and wear jeans in rural Sindh

My dadi told that the lady was a migrant who lost her parents during migration process and a gentlemen (who was in his 30s at the time of partition) adapted the girl. He sent her to medical college and when she became doctor he told her that he has started looking rishta for her. The young lady said that you sacrificed all your life for me so I want to marry you. After some arguments, the guy agreed and they lived happily ever after.

wow! woman driving a car and wearing a jean and that too in rural Sindh is nothing short of miracle…she was Pakistan’s version of Rosa Park

EXACTLY! isii liye, Islam meN ADOPTION nahiiN hai…you can raise a child and/or financially support him/her but you can NOT give him/her he/she your name, your inheritance and he/she will remain a naa maHram.

[queer]

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faris and i are brothers anyway, we are from closely related altaic tribes that swept down from the mogolian steppe on horseback, yurts in tow, and mercilessly supplanted our Y chromosomes far and wide over aryan lands.

[muqawwee123]

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@Faris_Udeen

^ Yes your right Muqawee bhai that was my mistake. But I am sure you still got the point.

Islam does not discourage or directly disaprove of bhai charay or munh bolay rishtay if anything it teaches us to be more carefull and maintain as many bands with people as possible, hence why many argue its a religion or peace love and harmony not just ordering people into a system.

Faris bhai

I agree Islam and all the religions in the world teaches harmony and bonding between the human beings. If Islam brought the end to some traditions like not marrying to the wife of munh bola beta, it doesn’t mean that Islam forbid for not developing relations. How can a religion like Islam bar human nature?

The Prophet himself treat even friends of Hazrat Khadija with respect and used to send those ladies gifts even after the death of Hazrat Khadija (RA). This shows that Islam emphasise on relation building.

[Faris_Udeen]

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@queer

faris and i are brothers anyway, we are from closely related altaic tribes that swept down from the mogolian steppe on horseback, yurts in tow, and mercilessly supplanted our Y chromosomes far and wide over aryan lands.

Arey bhai

Keep it down

If word gets round that were brothers you’ll be chased by Hindu Nationalists and I’ll be fighting a running battle with proto Arab mercenaries.