Even in the West the goray still have best "man" and so on at Weddings.
As well as that before all the homo **** there was always the term "Batman", "Wingman", "Jock" etc for a ever present companion. The Batman was obvioulsy a cricket refference and the Wingman was an old millitary term sometimes also used was flankman or sideman, but wingman became common after airforce pilots and aces were the rage. Jock is a bit of an ambigous one though no wonder the anti homo team have a field day over it :D
even in pathans i have heard tehre is a special man just like best man, n he takes responsibilty if there will be any fight in couple he will be there for rescue purpose , dont know its true or false, my friend told me
^ Yes thats very true, this is one of the original reasons for Baraderee and Bondsmen. Nowadays its more a ceremonial thing but in bygone days baraderee was what kept you alive from other raiders and tribes.
In jatland, sharing wine glass or Huqqa pipe makes them as brothers, generally Jhootha khana accha nahi maana jaata lekin cigrettes aur wine glass main koi caste,creed, relgion ka difference nahi hota:D
never saw the dupatta badal , pagri exchange or langotiya exchange relationships:bummer:
I didnt even call 2 of my csn bros “bhai” (who i had never met) until I saw them in person.And I didnt count them in my csns list either until I met them
One of our family frnds …well they are family frnds since nani’s time , cuz both hubby n wife had come to nana/nani’s place jub pak se aaye thay and stayed there for many yrs and nani taught the wife many things…so the husband considers himself nana’s son and kinda so does nana…
thir kids call us their csns ,when i heard it for the first time i was shocked…but i dont call them my csns…
is tht bad:bummer:
oh and nana has another munh bola son whom we ALL (csns) dont like 'cuz nana likes him a lot
When We heard abt nana’s munh bola son (whom we all dislike:grumpy: ) , uske few days baad aik din nana was reading urdu news , me and csn sis nana ka kuch kaam ker rahe thay waheen pe , I asked him
LP: nanajaan mumh bolay beyte kaise bantey hain
Nana: court mai jaa ke kehtey hain , qubool hai qubool hai qubool hai
and he started laughing
Later mujhey pata chala aisa kuch nahi hota …now dont ask me how old I was then
Don’t we remember how the misconceptions related to this relationship were clarified after the Prophet (SAW) married Hazrat Zainab (RA).
But again religion is something different than culture. I think in Arabs religion prevail over culture in some aspects including this munh bola system.
whom we ALL (csns) dont like 'cuz nana likes him a lot 
