Desi Attitudes towards Daycare/Pre-School Programs

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@Mehnaz

Why is there such a negative attitude towards daycare/childcare or toddler/pre-school programs? Regardless of if you work or don’t, the general attitude is that if you put your child in any of the above-noted programs, you simply aren’t a good parent. One of my friends who had her daughter in daycare from an early age, the girl’s phuppi decided to brainwash the daughter when her mother wasn’t around and told her that her mother hates her and doesn’t want her around and that’s why she ‘dumped’ her into daycare. The psychological affects of this kind of talk is so damaging, it’s simply disturbing.

Why so much hate? More importantly, why do people who don’t even have any kids feel the need to dictate what ‘good parenting’ is?

I have observed this so much and I don’t understand how people handle hearing all sorts of putdowns.

because these people are A grade ullu kay pathay.
no other reason.

I have not run into such situations

anyway here is one that takes the cake..

a dude and his wife were working hard, raising kids, had daughters in preschool…not even daycare or with baby sitter ..they were supporting his family back home and sending money to his parents..dude’s freeloader older brother who lived with the mother puts them down and their kids down saying these people would have kids with bad moral characters because the kids are in preschool rather than being at home with mother and what type of mother leaves her daughters with blah blah blah..

nice eh?