Work on the problems, yar. Har rishte main thori bohut an-ban tu hoti hai. Doesn’t mean we give up so easily. Don’t take it to heart. If he is counting your shortcomings, listen and work on improving yourself. And make a list of his, so he has something to work on as well.
Did he say that because you were refusing to make adjustments in yourself or you were arguing perhaps? Men don’t like being talked back to.