if your husband or wife told you that you don’t deserve their love- could you ever move past it? would you be able to live happily with them after being told something like that?
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Well. When me and my husband flights. This is the précised words we normally use. YOU DON’T DESERVE MY LOVE.
But believe you me. Inside we both know that no one else deserves it other us him/ her. It’s the transparency of husband and wife’s love. They fight, Use harsh words, Express the most in punitive way and at the end forget everything and get along.
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any others please?
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yaar choti choti batain hoti rehti ... kal when he/she will b normal ... sab theek ho jie .. tension na lo ap ... u smt hav done somthg to annoy themmmmmmmmmm... isnt it ... ?
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depends on what the underlying issue is. why was it said/in the moment with anger or just casually brought it up? did they regret saying it?
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if your husband or wife told you that you don't deserve their love- could you ever move past it? would you be able to live happily with them after being told something like that?
Yeah, as long as it was said in anger and didn't mean anything. Come on, we all say things in anger that we don't mean. Agar itni si baat ko pakar ke baith jaayen, phir tu nibh gaye rishtay.
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^some background is- it was a love marriage.. couple doesn't get along that great but is attached to each other
both have their shortcomings in the relationship (which both have previously admitted to each other)- now husband is threatening wife that she had better change her ways and saying she is majority cause of problem
during what was supposed to be a constructive conversation- husband told wife she doesn't deserve his love
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Havn’t heard or used this line…
But agreed with the above …If its said in anger i could overcome it… But if he is serious i would throw his bags out of the window and change the locks the same evening… Cuz if i don’t deserve his love… He deffinatly doesnt deserves living with me 
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aww, cute.
Work on the problems, yar. Har rishte main thori bohut an-ban tu hoti hai. Doesn’t mean we give up so easily. Don’t take it to heart. If he is counting your shortcomings, listen and work on improving yourself. And make a list of his, so he has something to work on as well.
Did he say that because you were refusing to make adjustments in yourself or you were arguing perhaps? Men don’t like being talked back to.
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^wife was discussing her shortcomings and what she could improve on (i.e. she was willing to make adjustments)- but husband is now trying to say that wife is major cause of problems instead of taking equal blame in the relationship difficulties
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that doesn't sound right- i don't think a husband should say that to his wife if he really wants to be with her
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that’s the end of the world…must commit suicide! 
j/k…of course, that’s NOT the end of the world! 
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if your husband or wife told you that you don't deserve their love- could you ever move past it? would you be able to live happily with them after being told something like that?
deserving love? Love is beyond criteria? CSS ka exam thoRi hai ke age nikal gai to disqualify
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If wifey said that to me, I'd feed her to her MIL.
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dpends on the situation, waisay agar serious baat hu, tu i would get separated 
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atleast one man admits what his mum is… Nadz ko koi bataye.
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I think k jab ap ka hubby achY mood may ho tu app ko ic topic pe baat krni chahye.agr us ka matlb yehi nikalta ho tu us se naraz hona chahye.mger separate ni hona chahye.tab tak baat ni krni jb tak sorry na bolay
You could actually take that quite positively. He must love you soo much to say that. I'm sure he didn't mean it but just let him know that it hurt you. Maybe he will try to make it up to you.
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I am married for past 25 years and we have both seen the worst of each-other. "you don't deserve my love" is nothing, we have said the worst things to each-other... but we both can't imagine living for even one day without each-other...
just take it easy, it is not the end of the world. BTW, it is quite normal in spouses to say things like that.
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yes wait till March when the lawn mania starts .