Re: Desensitisation…do you prefer it?..
No i don’t think i would like to see it as something trivial, because in my eyes it will never be trivial…but i know wot u mean about some ppl and how they don’t “show” any emotions when someone they know dies…i remember watching a show in America about these soldiers and also young women who were rape victims, somewhere in Africa (perhaps the Congo) and they were like totally numb to death…they had seen it so much in their short lives that is was so ordinary to them…it was such a sad show, i remember having tears in my eyes just listening to their horrific stories :(…i haven’t experieced anybody close to me dying and so i know when unfortunately i will, that i will be very emotional and it might definately “show” to others…and i suppose ppl who have gone thru this several times in their life, they also feel just the same amounts of grief and depression but it may not be visible to others, as they probably grieve behind closed doors…life is precious, and when it is gone it is always a great loss and affects everyone, but in their own ways…