very easy to blame it on mom! :halo:
Why don’t you realize that she has given you the education to do whatever you wish to do now and in future?
If you have not done anything before then BIG DEAL! None of us girls who went to college did anything while in college.
There is time for everything. Use your education and become wiser instead of blaming it on your mom - a very uneducated opinion from you - me thinks 
It’s okay if you did not do any of the above - because we ALL “catch up” like a crash course on home skill and TA DA!!! we manage by till we become experts…
Now shu!!! Go and start making changes today. First start with your name: From Barbie doll to WORKINGDOLL!!! 
Then go for laundry, clean up your room, and then when your mom is cooking go and observe what she does and learn! Simple!!! 