depressing

[neha]

@barbiedoll

Salaam

I was reading DA’s thread, and how she is having so much trouble managing her new home. Even though I am not married yet, but I felt like i am in a very similar situation. I never truly realized that a girl is supposed to know how to manage her house regardless of what degree she holds. So all my life, all i have done so far is finish my education. I dont know how to cook. I doubt it that I have ever done laundry. I dont iron. I have never managed to buy grocery etc. I can’t sew nor create any crafts. My mom used to tell me that I should do all this, but she never forced me. So at this point, I feel that before I get married, I need to learn all this otherwise i am going to be in same situation as DA. But on the other hand, i feel it’s mom’s fault. She never forced me. I feel like i am a useless person. I dont have any hobbies, and even at this point I dont know how can I learn all this.

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exactlyyyy..i have 101% the same fears coz i never ever did any chores…never ever in my life..am afraid too now:(**