So we are tryig to concieve for an year now, I know it can take upto 2 years to concieve, even if ur are 100% healthy. But I dont know whenever I get my periods, I get all depressed, cranky and moody and I know its partially because of hormonal changes due to my periods, I just wanna cry all the time for no reason except one thing in mind that I cudn’t concieve even in this month.
I had my tests done twice, all is well except once they found my prolactin level a bit higher, on which they asked me to get my test done again, and it tuned out normal. since I had no obvious symptoms of high prolactin level, doctor said it might have gone up a bit coz of stress. other than that everything was fine.
I don’t know why it’s taking me so long to concieve, I get so disappointed every month, Plz advice me how to come out of this situation and also remember me in ur prayers.
This is natural. I remember myself crying rivers also. But well, for once we should sit by ourselves and ask what the problem really is? Like now when I look back, I feel it was an ego problem majorly. She conceived, they conceived, then WHY CANT I? I AM BAD? I LACK! and all that. But I think I was utterly wrong to bring in ego into this. Like we all know its in Allah’s hands. In sha Allah He will hear soon. Its just the matter of keeping hope intact and waiting. Our depression and crying cant help much other than relieving the anxiety. In any case, however, sabr and shukr is what Allah appreciates the most. Instead of falling into depression, (which can actually become a disease if you entertain this monster too much ) focus on Quranic Duas, and read the stories of the Prophets who were trialed by Allah but who were rewarded WELL for their patience and gratefulness. For Allah, its only as long as saying “KUN”. In shaa Allah He will hear you soon. Ameen.
Mirage u are a sweetheart. Really
Your post brought a smile on my face. But seriously most of the time it is like this she conceived, they conceived, why can’t I?
So please people keep us in Dua’s and hope we get out of ttc phase soon! In shaa Allah. Ameen.
) focus on Quranic Duas, and read the stories of the Prophets who were trialed by Allah but who were rewarded WELL for their patience and gratefulness. For Allah, its only as long as saying “KUN”. In shaa Allah He will hear you soon. Ameen.