Delaying having kids after marriage for few years?

[PakWoman]

Re: Delaying having kids after marriage for few years?

@Sara516

If zakat was implemented it would work, but guess what? It’s not, and that means people can and should be making educated decisions regarding their families and surroundings!

Yes, and my point was it ‘could’ work. It isn’t an outdated plan for today.

Plenty of people don’t intend or plan to have their children but they come as surprises, do you think they are going to kill them or commit abortion? No, they have their children and love them and raise them!

Yes they do. The issue of population control is a controversial/debatable issue for many today, so I don’t know what huge sin did I commit by defending my stance.

You want to get pregnant on your wedding night and think you’re doing the world a favor, that’s your choice but it’s silly to put down others who choose to enjoy their life before being bogged down with the responsibility of children.

No one’s forcing you to have unprotected sex on your wedding night either, so you are free to save the world. The OP asked for an opinion and I gave it! Some people wanted to know why I hold such views, I told 'em. I was lead to defend 'em, I tried. It doesn’t mean everyone has to do what I think or that I’m trying to put them down by what I want or not want for myself. The religious issues I brought in (only when they were required) are real issues discussed by many Muslims scholars out there. I did not make 'em up.
And most importantly none of it was personally aimed at anyone.