Delaying having kids after marriage for few years?

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Re: Delaying having kids after marriage for few years?

@CEO1

Stop showing off.

Showing off my a$$…lol…

@queer

lol.. what utter nonsense! green cards don’t work by sifaarish. it doesn’t matter if your dad is bill gates, he can’t get some random families green cards.

even if he is claiming these families to be his immediate relatives, or highly skilled employees, they still have to go via the regular priority dates for whatever quota he is claiming for them. and even here, there is no way to claim green cards for daughter-in-laws family to bring over with her after the wedding. stop lying, “baby.”

My dad is an expert, I can’t really answer you about the process but the families were well established in Pakistan and visited U.S many times on a visitor visa.

@ArabJaani

Sehar, would you get me and my habibi a green card, please?

lol… My daddy is the man!!!

@redvelvet

I understand that kids need parents who have a healthy marriage. BUT…the idea of trying to figure out if you’re compatible with one another only/strictly after marriage doesn’t sit well with me either. Even though the couple does not have kids…a divorce is still a social stigma for women in our culture. I agree that a couple should try to sort their issues out before having a kid (though that’s not always possible).

I think compatibility needs to be checked before shadi because it is necessary for bonding into a new relationship.. My brother’s marriage was 100% arranged and he never had a chance to speak to her before shadi. I agree with you redvelvet completely!!!