Re: Define Love in terms of Pain
yehi to mai keh rahi hun…do doston main ya office colleuges ke aapas main waise jazbaat ya feelings nahi hotay jo shohar biwi ke aapas main hotay hain…no doubt your friends may know you for longer than your husband…but, for example, imagine ke aapke husband ki kisi din tabiyaat kharab ho rahi ho, aur usi din aapke kisi ache office colleuge ki ussay bhi ziada tabiyat kharaab ho, would you be more concerned about your husband’s health or your office colleuge?? i m sure or atleast i think so, naturally, you would be much more concerned about your hubby’s health no matter woh aapke saath kaise bhi hain
the point is ke ye jo feeling hoti hai, unconditionally apne spouse ka khayal karna ya usay notice karna, this is what, atleast, I call true love
aur jisme ye unconditional care aur concern naa ho apne spuse ke liye, aur bas physical ya emotional attraction ki waje say jazbaati hona hota hai, woh beshak true love nahi hota hai
ye bhi hai ke aap married life ke baare mujhse ziada experience aur understanding rakhti hain, abhi toh i m unmarried so can’t say that my views are better than yours