“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love…”Neil Gaiman Quote**[**
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love…”Neil Gaiman Quote**[
@ Neha: You'll find out later in life.... it really doesn't matter.
When you find the one you love and who loves you..... or you develop love, there's no pain/hurt.
Marriage is the BEST thing that can happen to anyone, that is… if you are a positive person and look for the best in your partner.
My husband is not perfect and neither am I, but we mostly look at our relationship in the long-term and we’re a team rather than opponents. Chotay motay problems tau hotay rehtay hain in every relationship, its up to you to make your marriage work out.
I am the sort of person who thought they would never fall in love (crushes… yes, infatuation… yes, but no love).
I am more than glad to say that I found love with my husband, it hurts a little when we have serious fights (once in a blue moon though, Alhamdulillah) but he soesn’t like hurting me or I him, so we manayofy each other quickly… thats what real love is like, you can not stay angry at each other and do not like hurting each other and you care enough to actually take actions to remedy any hurt you’ve caused (no ego involved)… just my two cents
Marriage is the BEST thing that can happen to anyone, that is… if you are a positive person and look for the best in your partner.