Re: Define Love in terms of Pain
Marriage is the BEST thing that can happen to anyone, that is… if you are a positive person and look for the best in your partner.
My husband is not perfect and neither am I, but we mostly look at our relationship in the long-term and we’re a team rather than opponents. Chotay motay problems tau hotay rehtay hain in every relationship, its up to you to make your marriage work out.
I am the sort of person who thought they would never fall in love (crushes… yes, infatuation… yes, but no love).
I am more than glad to say that I found love with my husband, it hurts a little when we have serious fights (once in a blue moon though, Alhamdulillah) but he soesn’t like hurting me or I him, so we manayofy each other quickly… thats what real love is like, you can not stay angry at each other and do not like hurting each other and you care enough to actually take actions to remedy any hurt you’ve caused (no ego involved)… just my two cents