I think they get their gaurds up instantly because they r too aware of their faults Maybe b/c they are too frustrated with their ownself that they just can’t take a friendly criticism from anyone
Aaou mil kar haath uthayein aur iss qoum kay aisey aqalmundou kay lye dua karein kay Allah s.w.t inhay bardasht ki qouwat ata farmayein, AmeeeeeeeN tlk par phoonk maaring